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Just for SpousesThrough the medical journey we often use the pronoun “we” when referring to our spouses’ career accomplishments. A physician’s career takes years of school and training, both consuming energy and brain space. More than an occupation it’s a lifestyle and for many a “calling”. Since 2017 spouses have shared stories and wisdom here at The White Coat Wife as they navigate each season of the journey alongside their spouses.ย
Stolen Joy: A Pitfall of Comparison
Emily Vacek has not always bloomed where she was planted. But through the hard and life of endless transitions as a fellows wife, she has grown in wisdom. I just love how open Emily is with her story and how she puts words to the comparison struggle we all face at one...
Forgiven
We can choose to carry unforgiveness around. Letโs face it, we all get hurt by harsh words, severe wounds caused by people we have trusted and loved, or even just being stood up by a friend because she got busy and forgot the date. But unforgiveness becomes a heavy burden we drag around. Then the next injury makes it heavier, it begins to pile and turn to bitterness. It affects our marriage, new friendships, and family.
Reflections from our First Year of Residency
With a schedule that literally changed every few weeks (let’s be honest- every day), our marriage roles did too!
An Answer for those Married but Single Parenting
Yesterday, while shopping at Sam's Club the kids and I of course stopped by the pancake and syrup samples lady. It was organic syrup so I didn't feel quite as bad allowing my children to devour...allowing myself to devour a piece. A middle aged, Columbia wearing...
Defining the “Hard” of Medical School
Hard is not an excuse to be bitter! Its especially not an excuse to shift blame toward your husband. But Sunday I was there.
Embracing The Loneliness of Medical Wife Life
Our guest post is has come at the perfect time for me personally. Tom is in his last month of rotations before four major board exams. Yes, FOUR! Loneliness is definitely felt during this time. Let me introduce you to Meredith, a pediatric nurse turned stay at home...
First Time Home Buyer’ Guide
Start with this checklist before you begin your home search on the MLS.
