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Just for SpousesThrough the medical journey we often use the pronoun “we” when referring to our spouses’ career accomplishments. A physician’s career takes years of school and training, both consuming energy and brain space. More than an occupation it’s a lifestyle and for many a “calling”. Since 2017 spouses have shared stories and wisdom here at The White Coat Wife as they navigate each season of the journey alongside their spouses.ย
Low Income Status: How a Family Finances Medical School
“I had expectations for marriage of not necessarily living above our means, but having means…and then medical school started.”
The Single Most Important Decision You Make for Your Children
They shared with us everything from the daily schedule and details that made this school experience wonderful to how this choice would set our child up for success and a path to the Ivy League. After all, wasnโt that the dream that everyone had for their child?
When “You Got This!” Isn’t Enough
I think the truth is that many of us find ourselves still โperformingโ long after the curtains have closed. We keep acting like the show goes on, but its time for an intermission.
Ways I Survived Medical School and Residency as a Medical Spouse
When you are the spouse of someone in medical school, trying to figure out some semblance of balance in your life can be challenging at best! Really, this is a struggle for anyone with a spouse who either works a ton, has an irregular or unpredictable schedule, orโฆ both.
Renovation, Restoration, and Remodeling our First Home
“There are perks to having hail the size of a baseball hit your home. Here’s to a light-hearted post of the journey of renovating our first home.”
Love in the Midst: Reflections after a Horrible Car Accident
In the days to follow, I expected pure joy and peace. My husband nearly died and was mercifully spared. I expected gratitude to fill my heart and soul, after all, it was Thanksgiving. I was thankful, but I was also bitter and directed it toward him.